Realizing the social hazards inherent in high rates of divorce, while seeking to improve the quality of marriage and help people solve their marital crises, the Ministry of Civil Affairs is promoting the Family Harmony Project. The nonprofit program, carried out under the auspices of the ministry, was launched in Shanghai on March 6. It aims to provide a greater number of highly skilled professional councilors and psychologists to work as "marriage doctors and nurses" to enhance the work of improving relationships and maintaining social stability. The first batch of 300 counselors will work in businesses and communities and with families in crisis, providing advice to 100,000 couples. Two websites, jiahegongcheng and weiqing120, along with a 24-hour hotline (4008-120-089), are available to help those in need. If a marriage cannot be repaired, the "marital medics" will also provide services to protect the legal rights of the divorcing couple. The hotline receives more than 1,000 calls a day, of which 70 percent concern extramarital affairs. "Marriage doctors and nurses are psychologists and marriage counselors who are keen to help marriages on the brink of failure. They volunteer to teach people how to maintain their marriage and keep it healthy and happy," said Shu. "No amount of career success can replace the success of a good marriage, because career success only accompanies you for a certain time but your marriage can be with you for your entire life. I have seen so many people who drive luxury cars and own large enterprises and property, but without a happy marriage, even their careers are affected negatively. The project is meaningful and practical in solving real problems. An old Chinese proverb says 'A harmonious family can lead to success in everything'. I hope the project can be promoted nationwide, because it can be one of the most effective ways of stabilizing society," said Chen. "The reasons for marital breakdown are becoming increasingly complicated and that's leading to rising demand for the expertise of the marriage doctors and nurses. Although most of the counselors are highly qualified as psychologists and marriage counselors, more training should be available," said Wei Mingzhen, founder of the first marriage hospital in Hubei province and deputy director of the China Marriage and Family Counseling Center. Some names in this article have been changed to protect confidentiality. (China Daily) |
為了提高婚姻質(zhì)量,維護(hù)社會(huì)穩(wěn)定,減少離婚對(duì)于夫妻雙方家庭和孩子帶來(lái)的傷害,民政部中國(guó)社會(huì)工作協(xié)會(huì)婚姻家庭工作委員會(huì)推出家和工程, 這項(xiàng)公益活動(dòng)將為遭遇婚戀與家庭情感困擾的市民提供咨詢服務(wù)與幫助。 家和工程上海基地3月6日正式啟動(dòng),首期將投入300名婚姻醫(yī)生、情感護(hù)士,他們將走進(jìn)企業(yè)、社區(qū)、家庭,進(jìn)行“夫妻情感保鮮、婚姻矛盾消化、家庭關(guān)系協(xié)調(diào)、敬老人愛(ài)家人”等情感維護(hù)。“家和工程”還專門(mén)建設(shè)了“家和公益網(wǎng)”、開(kāi)通24小時(shí)熱線,熱線主要進(jìn)行婚姻情感危機(jī)干預(yù)和離婚維權(quán)心理援助。300名專業(yè)人員持證上崗,接聽(tīng)電話和網(wǎng)絡(luò)在線咨詢。 熱線開(kāi)通半個(gè)月來(lái),每天都要接到1000多個(gè)咨詢電話,其中70%是咨詢有關(guān)婚外情的。 舒心說(shuō):“我們的婚姻醫(yī)生和護(hù)士絕大多數(shù)都是經(jīng)驗(yàn)非常豐富的心理咨詢師和婚姻家庭指導(dǎo)師,他們都對(duì)幫助大家維護(hù)婚姻穩(wěn)定充滿熱情?!?/p> “人生中沒(méi)有任何成功可以代替婚姻家庭的成功。因?yàn)槭聵I(yè)的成功只是人生的一個(gè)階段,而婚姻家庭的成功將伴隨一生?;橐鲠t(yī)生和護(hù)士的工作非常有意義,將會(huì)對(duì)社會(huì)穩(wěn)定啟動(dòng)巨大作用。然而300名醫(yī)生和護(hù)士還遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)不夠,希望這一工程可以在全國(guó)推廣。” 陳一筠教授說(shuō)。 “導(dǎo)致婚姻瓦解的原因越來(lái)越復(fù)雜和多種多樣,同時(shí)也對(duì)我們婚姻醫(yī)生和護(hù)士的工作提出了很大的挑戰(zhàn)。盡管這些人很多已經(jīng)是經(jīng)驗(yàn)豐富的心理醫(yī)生和婚姻咨詢師,定期的培訓(xùn)來(lái)提高他們的幫扶技能更有益于提高婚姻調(diào)節(jié)的成功率,”武漢維情婚姻家庭服務(wù)有限公司首席婚姻危機(jī)處理專家魏明震建議。 (記者 何娜) (注:本文為編譯)
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